Have you ever had this feeling:
when u know some one is going through something u went through b4, and u want to help but sometimes wish to walk away cos the ordeal was to much n helping will just bring back the memories?
when u promise some one something but later tell that u can't keep it cos there was something more important. won't you wonder y did they promise in the first place, and if that thing was important, y did they forget it at that moment?